Spiritual Life
Spiritual Life
The Family that Prays Together Stays Together.
We hear this phrase all the time, but what does praying as a family actually look like? How can we turn our hearts to God when our kids are turning to screens, fighting with each other, or using their rosaries as weapons? (and not just spiritual ones!)
If this sounds like your family, then be assured that this situation is perfectly normal! But that doesn’t mean that you can’t make the spiritual life of your home an intentional, vibrant part of your family culture. As a matter of fact, parents must do this to fulfill the mission that God has given them. The church is very clear – parents are the first “heralds of the gospel” for their children. And that role is absolutely essential.
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The Spiritual Life of the Family
On this page you’ll find resources that help you realize…
- For our kids to be followers of Christ, we need to be. They need to see how our faith affects our life.
- When your child is secure in your love for them, they are going to be more secure in God’s love for them.
- No youth minister, priest, or teacher can take your place. Parents are responsible for passing on the faith to their children with the support of others.
- After we build a platform of love in our child’s heart, then we can open up to them the treasures of our faith.
Our mission is to empower parents to embrace their sacred calling, and it IS a sacred calling. This is a calling given to you not by your profession or by the state, but by God himself! We want to help you step into this role as the first evangelist of your child – and for you to know the love of Christ ever more deeply in your own life.
Podcasts on Spiritual Life
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MFP 392: Faith at Home: No Degree Required
“Parents need to awaken in children their sacramental imagination within the home. This takes time.”
Steven Serafin
In this episode, we talk with Steven Serafin of Faith and Family Life Catholic Ministries about how parents can reclaim their role as the primary teachers of the faith. Drawing from the catechumenal model, he explains that faith is passed on through relationship and daily life, not just programs. In a culture that no longer supports belief, families must intentionally live the faith at home through habits of prayer, discipline, and meaningful conversation. Steven shares simple ways to start, like blessing your children and creating small rituals that build a child’s sacramental imagination. He also highlights the importance of rest, living with heaven as the goal, and finding a supportive community. Strong parishes, he says, grow when families accompany and evangelize one another. Listen in and learn how you are already passing on the faith to your children within your daily life!
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Faith at Home: No Degree Required
Key Takeaways
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Parents are the primary teachers of the faith, and it’s passed on through daily life, not just programs or classes.
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The catechumenal model shows that faith grows through accompaniment, walking with others in relationship.
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Simple habits at home like prayer, blessing your children, and meaningful conversations build a lasting faith.
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Families need to slow down, embrace rest, and keep their focus on heaven rather than constant busyness or success.
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You’re not meant to do this alone. Small communities of families supporting each other are essential for raising children in the faith.
Couple Discussion Questions
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What’s one simple habit your family could start this week to live the faith more intentionally at home?
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Where do you feel most stretched or distracted as a parent, and how might slowing down or embracing “rest” change that?
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Who are the people or families you could walk with in faith so you’re not trying to do this alone?
Resources
Faith and Family Life Catholic Ministries
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MFP 389: 33 Days to Consecration to the Holy Family
“Consecration is about living your daily family life in union with Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, right in the middle of the mess.”
What if your family life, in all its chaos and imperfection, could actually become holy? This week on the Messy Family Podcast, we talk with Scott Smith about his book 33 Days to Consecration to the Holy Family. He shares how consecration isn’t just a devotion, but a way of living “under one roof” with Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. We dig into how this simple practice can protect your family, bring the spirit of Nazareth into your daily routine, and help you turn even your failures into moments of prayer. If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling short as a parent or struggling to lead your family spiritually, this conversation will meet you right where you are. Join us and learn how small, faithful steps can transform your home from the inside out.
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33 Days to Consecration to the Holy Family
Key Takeaways
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Consecration to the Holy Family means entrusting your whole family life to Jesus, Mary, and Joseph together, not separately.
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It brings both protection and a “spirit of Nazareth” into your everyday routines and work.
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You can relate to the Holy Family in a personal way by imagining life with them and learning from their example.
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Parents lead this best by living it first, then passing it on to their kids through simple, authentic witness.
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You don’t need to be perfect. Even your mistakes and imperfect prayers can be offered and become part of the journey.
Couple Discussion Questions
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How can we start a habit of prayer in our home today?
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When you think about being in the home at Nazareth, what do Joseph and Mary look like? How old is Jesus? What are you doing with them?
Resources
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MFP 383: How Play Time Shapes Prayer Time
“If you want to pray with your kids, you need to play with them.”
If you want your kids to pray with you, it starts long before bedtime prayers. It starts with how you play. In this episode, we explore the surprising connection between play and prayer, and why the time that can feel the most “unproductive” is actually doing the deepest work. We talk about how play builds trust, teaches emotional strength, and shapes how your children will relate to God. You’ll also hear why dads matter so much in play, how play changes as kids grow, and what gets in the way for most families. This is a practical, honest look at how simple moments of connection can shape your child’s faith for years to come.
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How Play Time Shapes Prayer Time
Key Takeaways
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Play builds the relationship that prayer depends on
If your kids don’t feel connected to you, they won’t naturally open up to God. Play creates that trust. -
Play teaches what prayer requires
Through play, kids learn trust, safety, joy, and connection. Those are the same muscles they use in prayer. -
What looks unproductive is actually foundational
Play can feel like wasted time, but it’s doing deep work. The same is true for prayer. -
If you don’t choose play, something else will take its place
Connection doesn’t happen by accident. It requires time, attention, and intention.
Couple Discussion Questions
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Where are we naturally connecting with our kids right now—and where are we missing them?
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What gets in the way of us being playful and present?
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What is one simple way we could be more intentional about play this week?
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MFP 372: Prayer for Beginners – Interview with the Science of Sainthood
“Without a life of prayer, you are really not living as a Catholic.”
Matt Leonard
What does it really mean to “go deeper” in prayer? And what if you pray every day but don’t feel anything? This week we’re joined by Matthew Leonard, founder of The Science of Sainthood, to talk about what real spiritual growth looks like. We break down the three modes of prayer, vocal, meditation, and contemplation, and how they form a path to holiness. Matthew shares practical steps for building a daily habit of mental prayer, handling distractions, and creating space for silence. We also talk about how married couples can grow spiritually together without pressure or guilt. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re making progress in your prayer life, this conversation will give you clarity, encouragement, and a clear next step.
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Prayer for Beginners – Interview with the Science of Sainthood
Key Takeaways
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Prayer is essential, not optional. Without prayer, we’re not really living the fullness of Catholic life. A relationship with the Lord isn’t an add-on. It’s fundamental.
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There’s a path to deeper prayer. Vocal prayer, meditation, and contemplation build on each other. Vocal prayer engages body and soul. Meditation is daily mental prayer and real conversation with God. Contemplation is a gift from God that we prepare for through faithfulness.
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“Feeling nothing” doesn’t mean nothing is happening. Distractions are normal. Lack of emotion isn’t failure. Stay faithful, show up, and trust that God is at work beneath the surface.
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Consistency creates growth. Commit to a time and place. Embrace silence. Use Scripture or spiritual reading to focus. Act on inspirations. Over time, deeper prayer opens you to greater grace.
Couple Discussion Questions
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How can we support each other as we grow in our prayer life?
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What does our personal prayer life actually look like right now, and where do we each feel invited to go deeper?
Resources
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MFP 366: God is Love
“Love of neighbor is a path that leads to the encounter with God… closing our eyes to our neighbour also blinds us to God.”
Pope Benedict XVI, God is Love
We begin with Love because marriage flows from our deepest identity and relationships, not just spousal dynamics. Created in the image of a loving, Triune God, we must first ask who God is and who we are in His eyes. Our relationship with God and with ourselves forms the foundation for loving others. Pope Benedict XVI’s God Is Love reveals that eros and agape are inseparable dimensions of love: we are made to give and receive love. God’s passionate, faithful love for His people—fulfilled fully in Jesus—becomes the model for marriage. In Christ, love of God and love of neighbor are one reality. Our first neighbor is our spouse, and loving them faithfully is the primary path to holiness and authentic love.
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God Is Love
Key Takeaways
- Love begins with God, not marriage
Before focusing on spousal relationships, we must understand who God is and who we are in His eyes. Our identity as loved by God is the foundation for all love. - You cannot love others without loving God and yourself rightly
Knowing and receiving God’s love allows us to love ourselves truthfully, which is necessary to love anyone else authentically. - Eros and agape belong together
Human desire (eros) is not bad; it is purified and fulfilled by God’s unconditional love (agape). Love requires both giving and receiving. - God’s passionate love is revealed fully in Jesus
Christ embodies God’s self-giving love and draws us into communion—with God and with others—especially through the Eucharist. - Marriage is the primary place love is lived
Spouses are each other’s first neighbors. Loving one’s spouse faithfully is the clearest expression of love of God and the path to holiness.
Resources:
Pdf of encyclical: Access Here
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MFP 354: How Can I Have a Relationship with God?
“Being Christian is not the result of an ethical choice or a lofty idea, but the encounter with an event, a person, which gives life a new horizon and a decisive direction.”
Pope Benedict XVI
Every one of us is on a journey towards eternity. Our life here on earth, our vocation, our careers, our relationships are all just ways that we can grow in our knowledge of ourselves and of God. But many of us struggle to learn how we can stretch ourselves and prioritize our own spiritual growth. In this podcast, we share our own stories of conversation moments and how our spiritual practices have changed and matured over the years. We hope this will give you some inspiration and ideas of how you can come closer to God our Loving Father and see that none of us are ever “done”. We are all on a journey towards our eternal home.
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How Can I Have a Relationship with God?
Key Takeaways
- To be a good mother or father you must first know who you are as a beloved son or daughter.
- Do things that put yourself in that place to receive from God such as mass, regular confession, and staying in a state of grace.
- Be honest about where you are in your season of life. Adopt spiritual practices accordingly
- Our perception of God is colored by our experience of our parents. Do we see God as having high or low expectations of us? Do we see God giving us high or low support to achieve those expectations? The most healthy relationship has high expectations and high support to achieve them.
- Recognize that we are constantly growing and maturing in our relationship with God and others. Growth takes time!
Couple Discussion Questions
- What is our perception of God and the Church? Where are we right now in our relationship with Him?
- How can we as spouses help each other grow in our relationship with both?
Resources
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