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We believe that being a good parent starts with being a great spouse.
But being a good parent or even a great spouse is hard, messy work. And we're not meant to do it alone!
So join us on this journey, because we believe that not only is marriage and family life a path to holiness, but it’s an incredible adventure!
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7 Questions to Evaluate Your Child’s Behavior
“If all fathers fulfilled their duty of watching over the discipline of their children, we should have but few crimes and few executions.” ~ St. Alphonsus Ligori
If you haven’t listened to MFP239 on the foundations of discipline, you should do that first. This podcast will give the practical steps for those principles. Once a parent has clear in their mind why they are discipling and they have made a plan on following through, they need to actually work that plan! In this podcast we give the practical things to keep in mind as you work to discipline, or form the hearts and minds of your children. There are six questions you should ask yourself when evaluating your child’s actions. Not all behavior is a child acting out or defying you. How do you know the difference and how should you respond? Listen in!
Play and Pray Challenge – www.messyfamilyproject.org/challenge/
Catholic Couples Getaway – www.catholiccouplesgetaway.com/
Watch here – https://youtu.be/vl0t6KbGJok

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Getting Kids to Obey
To become a better parent, I need to become a better person
Mike and Alicia
One of the subjects we are most often asked about is discipline. We know how hard it is to form the will, heart and mind of a child! Though every child is different and every parent is different, there are some principles that we can give you to help you make a discipline plan that works for you and your spouse. In this episode, we start with the foundational points.. First, we need to get our hearts right and recognize why we are taking the time to discipline in the first place. Then, parents need to speak with confidence, set clear boundaries, and do so keeping in mind that your role in affirming your child is essential. Listen in as we start this essential conversation.
Play and Pray Challenge – www.messyfamilyproject.org/challenge/
Catholic Couples Getaway – www.catholiccouplesgetaway.com/
Watch here – https://youtu.be/vmEzF1MCvPE

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Empowering Your Children
“When we’re able to put most of our energy into developing our natural talents, extraordinary room for growth exists. So, a revision to the “You-can-be-anything-you-want-to-be” maxim might be more accurate: You cannot be anything you want to be—but you can be a lot more of who you already are.”
― Tom Rath, Strengths Finder
Very often parents focus on improving the weaknesses in their children, but actually the opposite is more effective. The best way for any person to grow is to focus on their strengths – virtues, talents, or what they are naturally good at. Using those strengths builds confidence and actually can then make up for the weaknesses. Listen in as we discuss how to empower children through “strengths-based parenting”.
Play and Pray Challenge – www.messyfamilyproject.org/challenge/
Catholic Couples Getaway – www.catholiccouplesgetaway.com/
Watch here – https://youtu.be/TTV85m_tlp0

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How to Parent When You are Exhausted
“You know that feeling you get after a good night’s sleep?
Yea, me neither.”– Every Parent Ever
If you feel like you are living in a state of almost constant exhaustion, you are not alone. It’s not just the sleepless nights and crazy days – that’s a reality that parents have always had to deal with. We believe parents are more exhausted today because there are certain elements of our culture that do drain our energy more than parents in the past experienced. In this podcast, we pinpoint those elements so you can see them, recognize them for what they are, and learn how to manage them. You do not have to be worn down all the time! Managing the stressors of parenting is possible and hopefully we can help you with these tips and tricks!
Play and Pray Challenge – www.messyfamilyproject.org/challenge/
Catholic Couples Getaway – www.catholiccouplesgetaway.com/
Watch here – https://youtu.be/inI8NPgFzsg

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Surviving Infertility, Toddlers, and House Renovations – an interview with Chris and Emily Chapman
“Before we began the adoption process, before we could be the parents our children needed us to be, I had to grieve those losses. I had to offer my broken dreams to Jesus, and trust He would not permit me to carry the cross of infertility unless He could bring something beautiful out of it.”
– Emily Stimpson Chapman
This interview with Emily and Chris Chapman is an amazing conversation about some deep and painful topics, but sprinkled with laughter and joy! Emily Stimpson Chapman is an accomplished author and Insta personality, but she is also a wife, mother, and friend to us! Through their own journey in the ups and downs of single life and then marriage, Chris and Emily have learned many lessons that they share with us in this podcast with wisdom and humor. It’s amazing to hear how you can go from living alone, to living with a husband, to living with 3 babies in a very short amount of time. Add to that a basement flooding with sewage, ailing parents, and adjusting to family life overall makes for some interesting conversations! Join us for this visit with the Chapmans and be encouraged on your unique journey with the Lord.
Find all this and more at www.messyfamilyproject.org

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How Can We Afford a Child
“How can there be too many children? That’s like saying there are too many flowers.”
– St. Theresa of Calcutta
There is great confusion in our world, even among good Catholics, about the purpose of marriage and even the purpose of having children. Catholics do not “discern having another child”. Instead, our default is that we are always open to new life in our families, but in grave circumstances, we can postpone pregnancy for the overall good of our family. In this episode, we discuss how we can form our conscience to come to a deeper understanding of the role of children in our marriage that includes, but also goes beyond, financial considerations. Discerning this area of marriage can be tricky, so we called a lifeline for this one, and invited Jonathan and Amanda Texiera, founders of WalletWin, to come on and help us to navigate this issue and give couples good questions to discuss with each other and options to consider.
For more information on this and other topics visit: https://www.messyfamilyproject.org/